Justine took a more laid back approach to scheduling to sort of "coast" through this year and be able to enjoy and soak up the last few months of her high school career with classes like, Everyday cooking, Just Desserts, consumer math, study hall, study hall, study hall, forensics, marine biology. While I admit the last two are not necessarily classes you can sleep through, they are classes that she is extremely interested in rather than being forced into. This kid watches Law & Order type shows every day and is going to be getting her Bacehlor's in Marine Biology so these classes definitely peaked her interest more than say, Algebra 2 would have and her grades proved it. She has had the ability to take the foot off of the gas the last few weeks and coast to the finish line, with stops at senior skip day and a day at the beach with many of her classmates.
Tami on the other hand made a decision at some point to make this the most stressful few months (until very recently) I have dealt with in a long time. Tami's schedule looked like this, Algebra 2, Economics & Financial literacy, Introduction to Business, English, and a couple of gimme classes like pottery and guitar. Now I am not saying she had an all AP level schedule but for her she was about as booked as she could be. Couple that with a bunch of visits to the nurse and trying to stay home from not feeling well (will get to that another post) and her lack of handing things in on time / at all in English she was placed on the "Danger" list for seniors. This is basically a list of students in their Senior year that are in danger of not graduating for either academic or attendance issues.
"What the fuck!!!!" I yelled in my head (Is that possible? I feel like I "yell" inside my head a lot to keep from yelling out of my mouth). "How the hell is this possible???" Turns out she had been doing the assignments and not handing them in on time or at all and missing class for various reasons (nurse, counselor, bathroom?!?!?!?), along with a dip in her grade. I think that she really took this senioritis thing a bit too far and began slamming (not pumping) the breaks in the middle of the 2nd marking period.
Needless to say this had lead to numerous phone calls with the counselors and emails back and forth with the teacher and grade checking for a few weeks but it finally seems like she has kicked it back into overdrive. As long as the grades stay where they are and she does not miss another class all will work out fine in the end. So at least all the stress is gone now.... right?.... WRONG!
Now we have PROM dresses to buy, a graduation party to plan and pay for (Did you know that One, Uno, Un, Single, Individual Port-a-Potty can cost up to $300 F$$$$$G!?!?!?) Thankfully a
In all honesty it got so overwhelming I started to feel a little sick, I even had a day where my brain was so screwy I started dropping things (eggs at home, drinks at shop rite). It's non-sense! I honestly can't wait for the party to be over so I can drink to my success at helping to raise two beautiful and intelligent women. After all, while the graduation is your child's success first, it is part yours as well. You play a huge role in this. Don't forget, it was you who sat and helped them learn to read, write, do math problems, tie their shoe, pack their lunch, it was you who took them to their dances and early morning field trips. You organized the birthday parties and drove them everywhere they needed to go.
It is going to be an emotional few days, they graduate on a Thursday night and their party is the following Saturday but it is going to be oh so sweet. I can't sit here and say I will be 100% glad their school careers are over (k12 that is), I will still miss the days of being involved with everything, as much as we were able to be anyway. I just think back to their little faces before school started, back to the excitement for middle school and sheer terror before High School. The sense of accomplishment in the band recitals, sporting events and dance competitions. My heart is melting now as I type this. I can see these things like they were yesterday.
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